{"id":1437,"date":"2026-10-29T07:11:41","date_gmt":"2026-10-29T07:11:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/?p=1437"},"modified":"2026-10-29T07:11:41","modified_gmt":"2026-10-29T07:11:41","slug":"libertate-in-loc-de-leagan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/?p=1437","title":{"rendered":"Libertate \u00een loc de leag\u0103n"},"content":{"rendered":"<header class=\"single-entry-header\">\n<h1 class=\"single-entry-title entry-title\">Libertate \u00een loc de leag\u0103n<\/h1>\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1876285\" data-uid=\"0daf8\" data-src-id=\"${PUBLISHER_ID}\">\n<div id=\"mgw1876285_0daf8\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/header>\n<div class=\"article-featured-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"attachment-featured-slider size-featured-slider wp-post-image\" src=\"https:\/\/story24.biz.ua\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Screenshot_2026_10_28-1.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 286px) 100vw, 286px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/story24.biz.ua\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Screenshot_2026_10_28-1.png 286w, https:\/\/story24.biz.ua\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Screenshot_2026_10_28-1-248x300.png 248w\" alt=\"\" width=\"286\" height=\"346\" \/><\/div>\n<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<p>Am \u0219aptezeci de ani \u0219i nu am copii. Acest simplu fapt \u00eenc\u0103 evoc\u0103 t\u0103ceri st\u00e2njenitoare sau priviri pline de mil\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i totu\u0219i, nu ducem lips\u0103 nici de lips\u0103, nici de am\u0103r\u0103ciune.<\/p>\n<p>Am f\u0103cut o alegere &#8211; una roditoare &#8211; s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc liber, s\u0103-mi dedic via\u021ba unei vie\u021bi sobre, \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103rii \u0219i iubirii \u0219i s\u0103 nu tr\u0103iesc pentru nimeni.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd aveam dou\u0103zeci de ani, to\u021bi prietenii mei visau la fericire, la copii mici \u0219i la paturi albe.<\/p>\n<p>Visam la c\u0103l\u0103torii, biblioteci \u0219i ora\u0219e necunoscute.<\/p>\n<p>Draga mea mam\u0103, am un vis:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eTe vei r\u0103zg\u00e2ndi, fiic\u0103. O femeie nu este complet\u0103, a\u0219a c\u0103 nu va avea un copil.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Am iubit-o din toat\u0103 inima, dar \u00een ad\u00e2ncul sufletului \u0219tiam c\u0103 gre\u0219e\u0219te. Am ales s\u0103-mi scriu povestea, nu s\u0103 urmez scenariul altcuiva.<\/p>\n<p>Aleg\u00e2nd libertatea \u00een locul conformismului<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-90344\" src=\"https:\/\/pratiquesinfos.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_9918.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>Am studiat arhitectura la Moscova, \u00eentr-o perioad\u0103 \u00een care totul se destrama \u0219i era reconstruit. Lumea p\u0103rea s\u0103 se redeseneze sub ochii mei \u0219i t\u00e2njeam s\u0103 fac parte din ea.<\/p>\n<p>Am locuit \u00eentr-un apartament mic cu trei colegi de camer\u0103, m\u00e2nc\u00e2nd paste aproape seara, dar \u00een timpul zilei eram \u00eenc\u0103 \u00een via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Un anumit b\u0103rbat \u0219i-a \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bit via\u021ba cu mine timp de doi ani. Se distra mereu. Nu.<\/p>\n<p>\u00centr-o sear\u0103 mi-a spus:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eO s\u0103 regre\u021bi c\u00e2nd vei fi b\u0103tr\u00e2n.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>R\u0103spunsul meu:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eDac\u0103 copiii sunt o garan\u021bie c\u0103 cineva \u00ee\u021bi va aduce un pahar cu ap\u0103, atunci prefer s\u0103-mi fie sete.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ne-am desp\u0103r\u021bit f\u0103r\u0103 dram\u0103. El \u0219i-a \u00eentemeiat o familie, iar eu am construit o carier\u0103. Ne-am scris unul altuia timp de decenii \u2013 el, calm \u00een rolul s\u0103u de bunic; ea, calm\u0103 \u00een rolul ei de femeie liber\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>O alt\u0103 form\u0103 de mo\u0219tenire<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-90345\" src=\"https:\/\/pratiquesinfos.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/20231021132522-processus-conception-architecturale190619-4537.webp\" alt=\"\" \/><\/figure>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<p>Munca mea m-a purtat prin multe ora\u0219e. Mi-am l\u0103sat amprenta pe fa\u021bade de piatr\u0103 \u0219i \u00een proiecte arhitecturale complexe. Fiecare cl\u0103dire la a c\u0103rei proiectare am contribuit reprezint\u0103 o parte din mine, p\u0103strat\u0103 \u00een timp.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd trec ast\u0103zi pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 ele, m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc: acestea sunt copiii mei.<\/p>\n<p>Ast\u0103zi locuiesc singur\u0103, dar nu sunt izolat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Am o pisic\u0103, o gr\u0103din\u0103 \u0219i prieteni fideli. \u00cen fiecare diminea\u021b\u0103, m\u0103 bucur de lini\u0219te ca de un lux. \u00cemi beau cafeaua pe balcon, ascult p\u0103s\u0103rile \u0219i \u00eei mul\u021bumesc vie\u021bii pentru aceast\u0103 pace pe care mi-am dorit-o at\u00e2t de mult.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i totu\u0219i, \u00eenc\u0103 mai exist\u0103 oameni care m\u0103 judec\u0103. \u00cen timpul pr\u00e2nzurilor \u00een familie, \u0219oaptele revin:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eS\u0103raca m\u0103tu\u0219\u0103 Lida, nu are pe nimeni care s\u0103 aib\u0103 grij\u0103 de ea.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Z\u00e2mbesc, pentru c\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 am tot ce \u00eemi trebuie. Fericirea nu se g\u0103se\u0219te \u00een mul\u021bimea celor care te \u00eenconjoar\u0103, ci \u00een lini\u0219tea pe care o por\u021bi \u00een suflet.<\/p>\n<h2>A transmite mai departe, \u00eentr-un alt mod<\/h2>\n<p>Cu toate acestea, nu am \u00eencetat niciodat\u0103 s\u0103-mi \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219esc cuno\u0219tin\u021bele. Timp de treizeci de ani, am predat arhitectura unor tineri studen\u021bi. Unii dintre ei au devenit profesioni\u0219ti extrem de talenta\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p>\u00centr-o zi, dup\u0103 mul\u021bi ani, unul dintre fo\u0219tii mei studen\u021bi a venit s\u0103 m\u0103 viziteze.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu-\u021bi aminte\u0219ti de mine? Datorit\u0103 \u021bie, am g\u0103sit puterea de a merge mai departe.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen acel moment, am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 maternitatea poate lua forme diferite: s\u0103-i \u00eenve\u021bi pe al\u021bii, s\u0103-i inspiri, s\u0103 crezi \u00een cineva. Po\u021bi fi mama unor idei, a unor visuri \u0219i a unor voca\u021bii.<\/p>\n<h2>S\u0103 \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0219ti f\u0103r\u0103 regrete<\/h2>\n<p>La \u0219aptezeci de ani, am \u00eencetat s\u0103-mi mai fie team\u0103 de cuv\u00e2ntul \u201eb\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021be\u201d. Pentru mine, a \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2ni nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 ajungi la apusul vie\u021bii, ci s\u0103 prive\u0219ti totul printr-o lumin\u0103 mai bl\u00e2nd\u0103, care te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 vezi ceea ce conteaz\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n<p>Nu mai alerg dup\u0103 timp \u0219i nici dup\u0103 aprobarea celorlal\u021bi. \u00cemi continui drumul \u00eencet, dar cu deplin\u0103 con\u0219tientizare.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen fiecare sear\u0103, m\u0103 a\u0219ez l\u00e2ng\u0103 fereastr\u0103, cu o carte \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103, \u00een timp ce Joy, c\u0103\u021belu\u0219a mea adoptat\u0103, se odihne\u0219te la picioarele mele.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0103 prive\u0219te de parc\u0103 a\u0219 fi \u00eentreaga ei lume. Poate c\u0103 tocmai acesta este sensul maternit\u0103\u021bii la o v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u00eenaintat\u0103: s\u0103 oferi tandre\u021be celor care au nevoie de ea.<\/p>\n<h2>O scrisoare c\u0103tre t\u00e2n\u0103ra femeie care am fost odinioar\u0103<\/h2>\n<p>De cur\u00e2nd, am scris o scrisoare c\u0103tre t\u00e2n\u0103ra femeie care am fost c\u00e2ndva:<\/p>\n<p>Drag\u0103 Lida,<\/p>\n<p>Ai f\u0103cut bine c\u0103 nu ai ascultat. Lumea \u00ee\u021bi va spune c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fii mam\u0103, so\u021bie \u0219i un model demn de urmat.<\/p>\n<p>Tu trebuie doar s\u0103 fii tu \u00eens\u0103\u021bi. \u0218i \u00eentr-o zi vei \u00een\u021belege c\u0103 acest lucru este suficient.<\/p>\n<p>Am \u00eemp\u0103turit scrisoarea \u0219i am ascuns-o \u00eentr-un sertar. Poate c\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi cineva o va g\u0103si \u0219i va recunoa\u0219te \u00een ea m\u0103rturia unei femei care a avut curajul s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 diferit.<\/p>\n<h2>O via\u021b\u0103 \u00eemplinit\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 condi\u021bii<\/h2>\n<p>Casa mea este plin\u0103 de amintiri, c\u0103r\u021bi, desene \u0219i r\u00e2sete. Nu am copii, este adev\u0103rat. Dar, pretutindeni, exist\u0103 urmele lucrurilor pe care le-am iubit.<\/p>\n<p>Iar dac\u0103 ast\u0103zi cineva m-ar \u00eentreba dac\u0103 sunt fericit\u0103, a\u0219 r\u0103spunde simplu:<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Da. F\u0103r\u0103 rezerve. F\u0103r\u0103 regrete.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru c\u0103, \u00een ad\u00e2ncul sufletului meu, via\u021ba mea este cea mai frumoas\u0103 oper\u0103 a mea.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Libertate \u00een loc de leag\u0103n Am \u0219aptezeci de ani \u0219i nu am copii. Acest simplu fapt \u00eenc\u0103 evoc\u0103 t\u0103ceri st\u00e2njenitoare sau priviri pline de mil\u0103. \u0218i totu\u0219i, nu ducem lips\u0103&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1437","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1437","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1437"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1437\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1438,"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1437\/revisions\/1438"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1437"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1437"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1437"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}