{"id":1469,"date":"2026-10-30T02:55:20","date_gmt":"2026-10-30T02:55:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/?p=1469"},"modified":"2026-10-30T02:55:20","modified_gmt":"2026-10-30T02:55:20","slug":"libertate-in-loc-de-leagan-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/?p=1469","title":{"rendered":"Libertate \u00een loc de leag\u0103n"},"content":{"rendered":"<header class=\"single-entry-header\">\n<h1 class=\"single-entry-title entry-title\">Libertate \u00een loc de leag\u0103n<\/h1>\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1876285\" data-uid=\"15294\" data-src-id=\"${PUBLISHER_ID}\">\n<div id=\"mgw1876285_15294\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/header>\n<div class=\"article-featured-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"attachment-featured-slider size-featured-slider wp-post-image\" src=\"https:\/\/story24.biz.ua\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Screenshot_2026_10_28-1.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 286px) 100vw, 286px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/story24.biz.ua\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Screenshot_2026_10_28-1.png 286w, https:\/\/story24.biz.ua\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Screenshot_2026_10_28-1-248x300.png 248w\" alt=\"\" width=\"286\" height=\"346\" \/><\/div>\n<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<p>Am \u0219aptezeci de ani \u0219i nu am copii. Acest simplu fapt \u00eenc\u0103 evoc\u0103 t\u0103ceri st\u00e2njenitoare sau priviri pline de mil\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i totu\u0219i, nu simt nici lips\u0103, nici am\u0103r\u0103ciune.<\/p>\n<p>Am f\u0103cut o alegere &#8211; a mea &#8211; s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc liber\u0103, s\u0103-mi dedic via\u021ba cre\u0103rii, \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103rii \u0219i iubirii, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 apar\u021bin nim\u0103nui.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd aveam dou\u0103zeci de ani, to\u021bi prietenii mei visau la c\u0103snicii fericite \u0219i paturi albe.<\/p>\n<p>Visam la trenuri, biblioteci \u0219i ora\u0219e necunoscute.<\/p>\n<p>Mama \u00eemi spunea:<br \/>\n\u201eO s\u0103 te r\u0103zg\u00e2nde\u0219ti, fiic\u0103. O femeie nu este complet\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 nu are un copil.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Am iubit-o din toat\u0103 inima, dar \u00een ad\u00e2ncul sufletului, \u0219tiam c\u0103 gre\u0219e\u0219te. Am vrut s\u0103-mi scriu propria poveste, nu s\u0103 urmez scenariul altcuiva.<\/p>\n<p>Aleg\u00e2nd libertatea \u00een locul conformismului<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-90344\" src=\"https:\/\/pratiquesinfos.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_9918.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>Am studiat arhitectura la Moscova, \u00eentr-o perioad\u0103 \u00een care totul se destrama \u0219i era reconstruit. Lumea p\u0103rea s\u0103 se remodeleze sub ochii mei \u0219i voiam s\u0103 fac parte din ea.<\/p>\n<p>Am locuit \u00eentr-un apartament mic cu trei colegi de camer\u0103, m\u00e2nc\u00e2nd paste aproape \u00een fiecare sear\u0103, dar \u00een fiecare zi m\u0103 sim\u021beam vie.<\/p>\n<p>Un b\u0103rbat mi-a \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bit via\u021ba cu mine timp de doi ani. El \u00ee\u0219i dorea copii. Eu nu.<br \/>\n\u00centr-o sear\u0103 mi-a spus:<br \/>\n\u201eO s\u0103 regre\u021bi c\u00e2nd vei fi b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I-am r\u0103spuns z\u00e2mbind:<br \/>\n\u201eDac\u0103 copiii sunt o garan\u021bie c\u0103 cineva \u00ee\u021bi va aduce un pahar cu ap\u0103, atunci a\u0219 prefera s\u0103-mi fie sete.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ne-am desp\u0103r\u021bit f\u0103r\u0103 dram\u0103. El a \u00eentemeiat o familie, iar eu mi-am construit o carier\u0103. Decenii mai t\u00e2rziu, \u00eenc\u0103 ne scriem unul altuia &#8211; el, calm \u00een rolul s\u0103u de bunic; eu, calm\u0103 \u00een rolul meu de femeie liber\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>O alt\u0103 form\u0103 de mo\u0219tenire<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-90345\" src=\"https:\/\/pratiquesinfos.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/20231021132522-processus-conception-architecturale190619-4537.webp\" alt=\"\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>Munca mea m-a purtat prin multe ora\u0219e. Mi-am l\u0103sat amprenta pe fa\u021bade de piatr\u0103 \u0219i \u00een planuri arhitecturale complexe. Fiecare cl\u0103dire la a c\u0103rei proiectare am contribuit reprezint\u0103 o parte din mine, p\u0103strat\u0103 pentru totdeauna \u00een timp.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd trec ast\u0103zi pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 ele, m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc: ace\u0219tia sunt copiii mei.<\/p>\n<p>Ast\u0103zi locuiesc singur\u0103, dar nu sunt izolat\u0103 de lume. Am o pisic\u0103, o gr\u0103din\u0103 \u0219i prieteni adev\u0103ra\u021bi. \u00cen fiecare diminea\u021b\u0103 m\u0103 bucur de lini\u0219te ca de un lux. \u00cemi beau cafeaua pe balcon, ascult c\u00e2ntecul p\u0103s\u0103rilor \u0219i \u00eei mul\u021bumesc vie\u021bii pentru aceast\u0103 pace dup\u0103 care am t\u00e2njit at\u00e2t de mult.<\/p>\n<p>Unii oameni continu\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 judece. \u00cen timpul reuniunilor de familie revin mereu acelea\u0219i \u0219oapte:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eS\u0103raca m\u0103tu\u0219a Lida, nu are pe nimeni care s\u0103 aib\u0103 grij\u0103 de ea.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Z\u00e2mbesc, pentru c\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 am tot ceea ce \u00eemi trebuie. Fericirea nu se g\u0103se\u0219te \u00een mul\u021bimea oamenilor din jurul t\u0103u, ci \u00een lini\u0219tea pe care o por\u021bi \u00een suflet.<\/p>\n<h2>O alt\u0103 form\u0103 de a l\u0103sa ceva \u00een urm\u0103<\/h2>\n<p>\u0218i totu\u0219i, nu am \u00eencetat niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 transmit mai departe ceea ce \u0219tiu. Timp de treizeci de ani am predat arhitectura tinerilor studen\u021bi. Unii dintre ei au devenit profesioni\u0219ti talenta\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p>\u00centr-o zi, dup\u0103 mul\u021bi ani, unul dintre fo\u0219tii mei studen\u021bi a venit s\u0103 m\u0103 vad\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Nu-\u021bi aminte\u0219ti de mine? Datorit\u0103 \u021bie am avut puterea s\u0103 merg mai departe.<\/p>\n<p>Atunci am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 maternitatea poate lua forme diferite: aceea de a-i \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba pe ceilal\u021bi, de a-i inspira \u0219i de a crede \u00een cineva. Po\u021bi fi mama unor idei, a unor visuri sau a unei voca\u021bii.<\/p>\n<h2>S\u0103 \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0219ti f\u0103r\u0103 regrete<\/h2>\n<p>La v\u00e2rsta de \u0219aptezeci de ani, am \u00eencetat s\u0103 m\u0103 mai tem de cuv\u00e2ntul \u201eb\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103\u201d. Pentru mine, b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021bea nu reprezint\u0103 un sf\u00e2r\u0219it, ci o lumin\u0103 mai bl\u00e2nd\u0103, care scoate \u00een eviden\u021b\u0103 ceea ce conteaz\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n<p>Nu mai alerg dup\u0103 timp \u0219i nici dup\u0103 aprobarea celorlal\u021bi. \u00cemi continui drumul \u00eencet, dar cu deplin\u0103 con\u0219tientizare.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen fiecare sear\u0103 m\u0103 a\u0219ez l\u00e2ng\u0103 fereastr\u0103, cu o carte \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103, iar Joy, c\u0103\u021belu\u0219a mea adoptat\u0103, st\u0103 \u00eentins\u0103 la picioarele mele.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0103 prive\u0219te de parc\u0103 a\u0219 fi \u00eentreaga ei lume. Poate c\u0103 tocmai aceasta este maternitatea la o v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u00eenaintat\u0103: s\u0103 oferi afec\u021biune celor care au nevoie de ea.<\/p>\n<h2>O scrisoare c\u0103tre t\u00e2n\u0103ra femeie care am fost c\u00e2ndva<\/h2>\n<p>Recent, am scris o scrisoare adresat\u0103 tinerei femei care am fost odinioar\u0103:<\/p>\n<p>Drag\u0103 Lida,<\/p>\n<p>Ai f\u0103cut bine c\u0103 nu ai ascultat de ceilal\u021bi. Lumea \u00ee\u021bi va spune c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fii mam\u0103, so\u021bie \u0219i un exemplu demn de urmat.<\/p>\n<p>Tu trebuie doar s\u0103 fii tu \u00eens\u0103\u021bi. Iar \u00eentr-o zi vei \u00een\u021belege c\u0103 acest lucru este suficient.<\/p>\n<p>Am \u00eemp\u0103turit scrisoarea \u0219i am ascuns-o \u00eentr-un sertar. Poate c\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi cineva o va g\u0103si \u0219i va descoperi \u00een ea m\u0103rturia unei femei care a avut curajul s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 altfel.<\/p>\n<h2>O via\u021b\u0103 \u00eemplinit\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 condi\u021bii<\/h2>\n<p>Casa mea este plin\u0103 de amintiri, c\u0103r\u021bi, desene \u0219i r\u00e2sete. Nu am copii, niciunul. Dar pretutindeni exist\u0103 urmele lucrurilor pe care le-am iubit.<\/p>\n<p>Iar dac\u0103 ast\u0103zi cineva m-ar \u00eentreba dac\u0103 sunt fericit\u0103, a\u0219 r\u0103spunde simplu:<\/p>\n<p>\u2014 Da. Pe deplin. F\u0103r\u0103 regrete.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru c\u0103, \u00een ad\u00e2ncul sufletului meu, \u0219tiu c\u0103 via\u021ba pe care am ales s\u0103 o tr\u0103iesc este <strong>cea mai frumoas\u0103 crea\u021bie a mea<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Libertate \u00een loc de leag\u0103n Am \u0219aptezeci de ani \u0219i nu am copii. Acest simplu fapt \u00eenc\u0103 evoc\u0103 t\u0103ceri st\u00e2njenitoare sau priviri pline de mil\u0103. \u0218i totu\u0219i, nu simt nici&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1469","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1469","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1469"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1469\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1470,"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1469\/revisions\/1470"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1469"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1469"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lovenews.store\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1469"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}